hey guys , give ur wide opinion and be honest ....do u think tht religion matters in love ? religion is a big part in marriage... but does it stop love or be the deciding factor in a love relationship ...?


share ur views....

I beleive religion dosent play an important factor in Luv but wen it comes to marraige then it does...
Practicaly its a fact... but also it depends on individual driving factor... weather his/her driving factor r his/her family or society... if he/she is not bounded by both these then he/she is allowed to take his own decision....
But i hav seen practicaly its very tuff for two religion to survive in a single home.

At the end its individuals perception....

i have the similar thought as haris has, when it comes to marriage, society plays a vital role and religion is major factor which i think plays an important role.

But at the end it is an individual choice...........

for me.. no religion does not matter in love or in any other relationship.. infact untill u step over on others religious feelings or facts ... it does not matter.. socity is not an excuse ... if u have clear thoughts and have guts to scrifies your ego and if u respact others feeling then it does not matters at all... but if u r a week entity then u start giving lot of reasons to satisfy ur comfort in future life...

i would agree with harris on the point that it doesnt matter in love

in marriage , it can only make difference if u base ur decisions concerning society n all those things in minds

but personally i feel this should not make a difference

Well, I agree with haris too. Love is blind and you do not consider some key analyzations to come up with a decision on whether to fall in love or not.

Some societies with broad-minded people do not care much about it since in the end it's the individual's personal decision of how he/she wants to live the life and not the parents, relatives or people of the society.

However, there are many societies that tend to stick firmly to their traditions and won't let anyone cross their traditional boundaries, in any possible way. That's where it's wise to respect the traditions (because the people are stubborn enough and won't let go). Otherwise that means onslaughting your life itself. Most of the socities wont accept it and you will have to leave all the people of your society and that doesn't sounds sane to me. It's insane to torture (or even kill? ) your love. Even if you can't be 'one', it's sane to keep your love alive and away from torture.

// post edited to reflect the move of this topic into debates section...

Im juz curious....

Does marriage not come out of love according to you?

And i wonder how is it a fact,

according to the world tdy when lots of religions have been mixed

in marriage institutions. ?

society? religion? as major factors?

mm lemme think......

isnt that a limitation of human being?

if u agree with harris, u can know ppl of diff religion n be in

a freindship relationship with them, but not in marriage?

isnt that hypocrisy? juz asking???

Religions that lead us to experiences of interconnectedness and deep participation with one another and the divine are bridges to the spiritual. They direct us to that indwelling center the Self in which safety, communion, awe, gratitude, compassion, joy and wisdom are matters of experience rather than dogma. The core of all great religious traditions is essentially the same to connect deeply one person to another i hope you guys agree with this.

A problem arises in religious teachings, however, when fear is used in an attempt to inculcate love. This tactic is an obvious impossibility that defies common sense and defiles what it is to be loving.

Where did the society come into play when you love your partner? They look at you differently??Treat differently?? well you can do the same then just make an impression there showing them how better you are compared to them, follow your morales use basic commonsense, i prefer to live life like how i want rather than how others want.

hey ana... the things u r saying r good in words... put practicaly nothing works... ... ther are thousands of unfortunate who dosent end up wid marraige inspite of luving each other... it happens bcoz of our society we stay in... tats why i said.. it depends on the person and the things he/she is bounded in... and here m not speaking about a boy or a girl... its about both...
Also i m a Asian so m saying thru a asian point of view not western point of view... as i hav born and bought in an asian culture... i m not at all aware of western culture's mentality on this subject... as their thoughts wud definately gona differ on this...

dude im an asian too
so it is ur point of view rather than an asian.. personally i know many of my family frns who are of different religion married, they are well off in the society...

dude im an asian too
so it is ur point of view rather than an asian.. personally i know many of my family frns who are of different religion married, they are well off in the society...

heluu senthil... i agree wid uu... i was defending ana... even i hav said the same points as u r saying now in my post....

mm her opinion n mine were same see it again

i said religion , society , color ,life style will not impact ones marriage if they love each other so much that they would give themselves totally for it , if it does then tht person is not independent enough to take decisions in life n i would call them (Decision) Dependent..

i feel this is a good debatable topic

// moved to debate section

Impressive.....

I feel that religion is something very personal and that it is the communication channel which one tries to establish between himself and the Devine. If this is an impediment on the way to realising ones love then there is something really wrong with it.

Let your heart take you where you want to go.....coz heart knows only the religion called love.....